Youth Mentoring Christchurch
Empowering Young Men to Build Real Strength and Integrity
Empowering Young Men to Build Real Strength and Integrity
Learn to define masculinity through empathy, strength, and respect rather than dominance and aggression.
Develop the ability to face challenges, understand and manage emotions, and build authentic confidence from within.
Gain practical knowledge about the effects and risks of substances, making informed choices that align with their goals and values.
Establish a foundation in physical fitness, building both discipline and confidence in apositive, structured way.
Learn the value of empathy, effective communication, and mutual respect, building healthier relationships and a balanced sense of self.
We start by discussing what it really means to be “strong.” Through discussions and exercises, I help mentees redefine masculinity in a way that includes vulnerability, empathy, and mutual respect. This step combats harmful “alpha male” stereotypes, showing them that real confidence comes from integrity and self-assurance, not dominance.
Once we’ve set clear goals, I’ll design a customised plan that breaks down each objective into manageable steps. This plan ensures that every action aligns with your vision for the future, keeping you on track to success.
Through structured fitness routines and health discussions, we explore how physical fitness boosts mental resilience and self-esteem. Each mentee learns the basics of maintaining physical health, instilling habits that support both body and mind.
Building emotional intelligence and social awareness is key to navigating life. We work on understanding and managing emotions, effective communication, and practicing empathy. These tools help mentees handle conflicts, form respectful relationships, and find confidence in social settings.
We start with a no-obligation session to introduce the program, discuss the mentee’s interests and concerns, and set initial expectations. This meeting helps establish trust and clarity on what the mentoring journey will involve.
Together, we create a tailored roadmap based on the mentee’s strengths, interests, and goals. This plan includes focus areas like substance awareness, fitness, emotional resilience, and positive masculinity, setting the stage for meaningful growth.
Each week, we meet to build on progress, explore challenges, and reinforce positive changes. These sessions are designed to be practical and interactive, covering fitness, self-expression, and decision-making in a way that resonates with young men.
Between sessions, mentees receive exercises to practice what they’ve learned, from fitness routines to reflection activities and social challenges. This practice helps turn knowledge into habits and builds real confidence.
No two players are alike, which is why cookie-cutter training doesn't cut it. We'll work together to craft a plan tailored to your specific goals, strengths, weaknesses, and position. This isn't just a generic schedule – it's a dynamic roadmap designed to optimise your development every step of the way.
I'm Josh Townshend, a life coach specialising in helping you overcome challenges and achieve your goals. I use my unique background in social psychology, fitness, and personal resilience to empower you to transform your life.
I've lived through similar struggles, so I understand what you're going through. I offer a no-risk consultation to show you how we can work together to achieve your goals. You'll gain immediate insights – before committing to anything further.
See how personal development coaching transformed their lives
Working with Josh Townshend was a game-changer. He helped me identify my strengths, overcome self-doubt, and create a clear path towards my goals. I'm now more confident and motivated than ever before."
Working with Josh Townshend was a game-changer. He helped me identify my strengths, overcome self-doubt, and create a clear path towards my goals. I'm now more confident and motivated than ever before."
Working with Josh Townshend was a game-changer. He helped me identify my strengths, overcome self-doubt, and create a clear path towards my goals. I'm now more confident and motivated than ever before."
Your Questions About Personal Development Coaching, Answered
We’ll measure progress by tracking the goals you set at the start and reflecting on changes in your confidence, relationships, and self-awareness. Each session includes a review of your wins and any areas for growth, so you can see tangible outcomes and recognize your achievements as they happen.
Yes, coaching can be highly effective in building social confidence, improving relationship skills, and overcoming anxiety-related obstacles. Together, we’ll develop tools to manage these challenges, helping you build genuine, fulfilling connections with others and feel more comfortable in social situations.
Building a strong, supportive relationship is essential for effective coaching. That’s why I offer a free initial consultation, so you can get a feel for my approach and determine if it aligns with your needs. If you feel uncertain at any point, we can openly discuss what adjustments might be needed or explore alternative resources. If you’re not satisfied at any time and want to end the coaching, I’ll offer a full refund.
Each session is structured to give you both reflection and action. We’ll discuss your recent experiences, explore challenges, and build strategies to overcome them. I use a blend of open-ended questions, goal-setting exercises, and accountability measures to help you make meaningful progress. Every session is customized to suit where you are on your journey and what you need most at that moment.
Most clients find that weekly sessions help maintain momentum and accountability, especially when starting. As progress is made, we may adjust to bi-weekly sessions or another schedule that best supports your needs. The frequency can be tailored based on your goals and preferences, ensuring you stay supported throughout the journey.
Coaching is future-focused and action-oriented, aimed at setting and achieving personal goals. It’s about building practical skills and addressing specific challenges in areas like relationships, social confidence, and personal growth. Therapy, on the other hand, often delves into past experiences and is typically used to address mental health conditions. Coaching is most beneficial for individuals looking to make proactive, goal-oriented changes in their lives.
Most clients start to notice shifts in mindset, confidence, and relationships within the first 30 days of regular coaching. However, progress varies depending on your specific goals, commitment, and the areas we’re working on. Together, we’ll set realistic milestones so you can see and feel the changes as they happen.