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Conquering fear, overcoming toxic cycles, transforming them into wisdom and life-changing strategies for success.

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To ensure that everyone understands who they truly are, what they need and how to relate to others to build successful and fulfilling relationships. We achieve this by working together on a deep and structured level, sharing my personal experiences that have led me through the depths of despair and out to a place of contentment, confidence, and fulfilment.

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Hi, I'm Josh Townshend.

Sitting in the back of an unmarked police car on the way in for questioning, facing prison again after the fourth search warrant had been executed at my home in ten years, the arresting officer next to me turned to me and said:

"You're in a bit of downward spiral, aren't you?". 

I remember thinking, "You know what, you're absolutely right".

In the same week, my ex-partner of seven years had come back into my life, then left again, telling me "You're broken, toxic and I can't wait to watch you get your head kicked in." 

I knew at this point something drastic had to change.

I thought I had it all. A fast lifestyle, cars, bikes, a $1.3M house on the hill, and numerous women meeting different needs, but inside, I was empty, angry, unfulfilled and lost. My negative cycles and habits had consumed me. I was looking for something I couldn't find externally - I didn't even know who I was.

I had no purpose; I lacked the friends I could talk to about how I felt and what I was going through. I was focusing on the things I thought I needed without working to understand myself and how I should treat people to not only succeed in my relationships and life overall, but give back and contribute to building up the lives of the people around me.

I knew what I had to do.

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Josh Townshend
Certified Relationship and Confidence Coach

 

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My Qualifications

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   Accredited Life Coach through NZIBS and The Coaching Masters

    Diploma in Psychology through The Open Polytechnic, NZ

    Qualified Nutritionist through The Nutrition Institute 

    Five Years Military & 17 Years Gym Experience

    Significant Relationship Experience and Insight

   Solution Focused and Results Orientated Approach

    As a Paragliding Instructor I help people overcome their fears 

    100% Money Back Guarantee on Packages

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Dating/Relationships

Overcome your fears and uncertainties around dating. Get to know yourself and your needs while developing the social skills to achieve a successful, fulfilling relationship.

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Confidence/Self-worth

Learn what it takes to maintain a healthy relationship through honesty and communication while learning to understand yourself and your partner on the deepest level possible.

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Breakups/Divorce

Process and deal with the negative emotions associated with the loss of a relationship. Find yourself again to ensure you create the best possible foundation for new love.

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Upgrade your relationships.

Get free access to my best advice on how to find, maintain and process the loss of relationships and friendships while discovering your authentic self. I've crafted this e-book based on over 23 years of dating and relationships filled with success, failure and heartbreak. 

If there's one takeaway, it starts with you.

testimonials

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"Josh has a way of making complicated situations seem so simple and easy to work through. Talking with him has helped me learn more about myself, what I need and I finally feel like my relo is on the right track."

-Tim, Christchurch

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"Josh’s advice on dating was a game-changer for me. His approach helped me get rid of my insecurities, embrace my strengths, and step into the dating world with  confidence and a positive outlook."

-Sam, Sydney

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"I've never been so broken as I was when I reached out to Josh. I felt safe speaking with him about how bad the breakup had been, and I honestly think I recovered five times quicker with his support."

-Sarah, Perth

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Take your first step toward positive change.

Everything you want is on the other side of fear, let's get you where you want to be.